Is this counted as cheating
hello dan and jenn
i have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months and i love her soooooo much its unbelievable. But my friends sister said she had feelings ages ago for me before me and my girlfriend went out. I don't know what happened to those feelings but then one day she was rubbing my arms...legs...and even planted kisses on me on my lips... i wanted to pull away but it was her that didnt, she was to weak and kept going. I didn't have any intentions or feelings for the kiss or even for her. i actually left my friends place early and did everything possible to keep away from her. i told her straight i dont want this happening again. i love my girlfriend so very much and want to spend the rest of my life with her and i was wondering if this could be considered as cheating. Since i had no feelings for her or the kiss. If it is counted as cheating, i could not tell her or else she cant look at me the same. Please i really hope its not counted as cheating i love her so much. She was the one who led it..seduced me if that is the so called definition but i tried pulling back but didnt work according to her. She said the kiss meant nothing to her later on and obviously meant nothing to me either so why are we worrying. Plus i dont think i should tell her because im so attached to her fam and friends and words will get spread making me out to be the bad guy. But is it counted as lying...is this counted as cheating? i really hope it isnt Please help
Last edited by rocky69; 01-12-2009 at 09:16 AM.
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