[robnjen]

My husband and I have great sex now, but I have still never had an orgasm. He does everything I ask him to do, and I feel like I am so close. The tension just builds and builds until I can not stand it anymore, I want to scream, and sometimes do, but I can not finish. We have tried everything I can think of. I know I have to be so close, because I can not stand it to be any more intense, but I don't know what to do at that point. Sometimes it feels like I have to pee. I have tried just relaxing, I have even tried pushing the pee out. I don't know what to do at that point. Since I have never had one, I don't know what it is supposed to feel like, or what else to. Please help.