I do not agree with the last post as far as getting it outside your marriage. I also do not necassarily agree with the comment "Your husband has a sex drive just not for you" The last poster has no idea if the husband has a medical issue with his sex drive or not. Some men as they get to a certain age are unable to "perform" like they use to and may use other means to get their gratification "porn" Now I am not saying I agree with thsi at all. I think a loving caring husband in tuned with his wifes feelings would make an effort to fix this problem. However this husband does not seem to have any interest in his wifes needs or feelings and thats why I said there should be some hard thinking. I could not and would not live that way. Without her having to commit adultery she can change her life.
One man's wife is another man's treasure......Basicully if he is not appreciating her there is someone out there who will. Life is to short to live in a sexless marriage.