Well I can't speak for every other white guy out there, but anal sex does interest me, even both ways. It's really just something you need to try once for youself. If you do it right, the danger is hardly even present at all; and who knows? You may even enjoy it!
I'm sure there are things you want him to try that he's having second thoughts over... so a wild intense relationship usually is focused around two heavily open minded people who are willing to just give something new a try, as long as it's not extremely dangerous.
