Agree with most here that having an affair would be stupid. The vows are what they are, like it or not. A couple of additional thoughts. Are you sure your wife isn't having an affair? Being addicted to online games sounds more like a phase, something she will eventually loose interest in, or at least to the degree that she is doing it now. But she may be using games as an excuse not to be with you.
However, for yourself, I would recommend (as well as getting therapy and the other advice above) is to invest some time in yourself. Read some good books, find a new hobby that you enjoy, take the kids to the park and if your not already the picture of health start working out and getting that 6-pack. Your wife desires the adventure of life and a healthy sex life just as much as you do, even if she appears not to. Happy people, who look good and are having fun are irresistible. Seeing ones spouse be that person may help kick things into gear for her, and realize the life she is missing out on by playing games.
HTH...
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