That wasn't the part I was wanting you to see. It's when we fall all over ourselves trying to please a woman so she'll like us. See, I've done what you're doing. That's one of those situations where
Good judgment comes from experience and experience comes from bad judgment.
I realize now that what I was actually doing was enabling the girl to continue the dysfunctional relationship by providing emotional support. That's not what you want to hear, but that's the way it is. She's using your emotional support to help her pursue this guy. That's wrong for both of you. I've seen my female friends do this to guys, and I've had girls do this to my male friends. You need to stop propping her up while she pursues this hopeless relationship.
I doubt what I'm saying is going to make a difference now. I hope you think of it on your next relationship, though.
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