Alright I've been in this boat myself, still at 18 have some issues with it, guys at this age are (for the most part) amazingly immature. But no guy in his 20's-30's should be interested in a girl who is 14.
As someone who was/is considered "mature for her age" I know there are all those "But I'm not like other girls my age" things, point blank: It is illegal for a reason.
You will have plenty of time to date those guys when you're an adult, but remember no matter how grown up you think you are right now, the law says differently. And it says differently for a good reason: Your protection.
It isn't just a risk to the underage person to be getting together with these guys, its a risk to the guys as well. Now I know, guys who are interested in girls that young aren't really ones you want to be protecting but just because the minor is interested doesn't mean the older person is and if that is the case they may get in a lot of trouble for something they didn't even do.
You don't have to date anyone, if you don't like guys your age don't date them, but don't rush to grow up and date the older men too soon either.
Thats my advice.
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