This sounds almost out of place in a fetish forum, lol, but I think part of the reason I always fantasized about being attacked and forced into things, tied up, gagged, whatever, was because on my end it meant I was "innocent." I grew up in a strict sort of way, where I was afraid to even think about sex because I thought it was an evil thought before you were married, and I'm such a sexual person! But if I got attacked, I can't help it, right?
Now, it's not just this. I mean I really do like the thought of being dominated and the man being so much stronger than me that I just can't resist him, and physical roughness turns me on. A lot. And the gentle stuff doesn't seem to work as well.
But there's definitely some psychology behind this.
Which is part of why roleplays where the submissive is a slut or a whore or has to be punished or humiliated don't appeal to me. For me, dominance/submission is like being a little girl and wanting to be a princess, and look beautiful doing everything and faint just the right way and all (everyone's seen little girls try to do dramatic princess things--it's hysterical). I want to be the beautiful princess in the beautiful dress with the beautiful corset (I love those), who looks beautiful even as she's being forced into something. I guess it's romantic to me.
Silly? Maybe.
Anyone got some input?
10-25-2008, 01:39 PM
Anyone else like the innocence?
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