Is it them, or is it me?

[LoughlinLover]

I am a nineteen year old girl. I have only lost my virginity within the last two years, and I have found myself in a slight predicament. I am a very submissive girl. i love being told what to do (in the bedroom, of course) but the problem is, i have been in three separate sexual relationships, and it seems that the main reason that I broke things off with them is that they were not aggressive enough. There was a lot of mildly aggressive things, but i just didn't keep my interest. I am in a new relationship, and He talks a good game, but i am still not sure. Am I frigid, or are they just not aggressive enough?

[rob]

It seems to be them at the moment-tell them what you want them to do. Tell them to tell you, if you say what you want they're more likely to oblige. (which is ironic if you think about it. You're commanding them to commnd you)

[Wolfhowl]

Rob is right

You need to make sure they understand your needs, but then again, it could be that they are a bit too young understand what you are asking. (assuming they are in the same age range as you are)

I would suggest find someone a bit older, so as they have more exp and are better able to meet your needs.