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Old 05-26-2009, 04:28 AM
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Question Seems like a lot of men like strap-ons?

I would try anything with my girlfriend at least onc and she knows that, but a strap on? iv never put anything in my butt before... does it hurt? how does it feel? and most of all how would it turn me on? idk if this is something that we would try but im just wondering just incase the both of us want to see what all the fus is about...
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It's a very sensitive area with loads of nerve endings just waiting to be stimulated. Once inside, your partner can apply pressure to your prostate. Some men have had orgasms just from this and I've heard they're wonderful. Anal sex can be fantastic as long as you follow a few simple rules.

1. Lubricate - the skin is very sensitive and can suffer little tears and abrasions quite easily. Use lots and lots of lube, preferably a thicker variety that doesn't evaporate so quickly.
2. Relax - it won't be any fun if you're all clenched up expecting it to hurt. Start with a smaller dildo or even just fingers (wear gloves) and graduate sizes from there.
3. Communicate - let your partner know what feels good. Anal sex shouldn't hurt. If it does, tell your partner to back off.

Have fun!
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Old 05-30-2009, 02:44 PM
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I'm not sure if its a lot of men that like strap ons. But if its something your into then you should explore it. Then you will know it its something you really want to be involved. Like always go slow at first and use lots of lube.
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Guys love them for different reasons such as submission, to have the woman bend you over and force sex upon you is very hot. Plus it is a very fun anal play method and possibly more intimate too. Let your woman feel how it is to be on the dominating end, and don't worry because there's a benefit for you too, for it could also be pleasurable and once you reach your first anal orgasm, it will be utterly unforgettable. Just follow Rogue Lady's advice on lubrication, relaxation and communication to have a better experience. You may also check out these various strap ons to help you and your partner come up with the right one for you.
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