ballbust me

[glennhaderin]

Often when I see a hot woman I want her to tease me and give me some erotic knees and kicks to my groin. Why?
I am embarrassed by this and can't tell my wife.
I'm a young professional and don't know how to get my outlet.b
What do I do?

[K. in Cleveland]

Originally Posted by glennhaderin

Often when I see a hot woman I want her to tease me and give me some erotic knees and kicks to my groin. Why?
I am embarrassed by this and can't tell my wife.
I'm a young professional and don't know how to get my outlet.b
What do I do?

Hey, don't be embarrassed, we all have our kinks and fetishes. Some people like to suck toes, some like glory holes, and some like it rough with some pain. Whatever gets you off (as long as it's not hurting anyone else or illegal) do it! I'm sure your wife has some sexual secret she hasn't shared for fear of embarrassment, so maybe by being the first one to open up it may lead to your sexual revolution. And if she seems disturbed or freaked out a bit by it, give her a minute. She just has to adjust to the idea.
Now, as far as taking blows to the groin, there is a matter of safety issues there. I'm not really experienced in this (except as a self-defense move) but you definitely want to make sure that you do not rupture anything, as this is a major medical issue. I'm sure someone here has safety tips on this, and can guide you to those resources.
Also, there may be a fetish club in your area, where you may be able to indulge in your fantasy and/or get help in safety tips.

[Dan And Jennifer]

Because of the health concerns around getting hit in the groin... I have a question for you. Take a step back and think about the act of getting hit in the balls.

What is it about the act that you find arousing?

Is is the pain?
Being taken down by a woman?
Dominated by a woman?

There are some things that Dan and I enjoy, but not for the reason you may first think. We enjoy certain physical activities, but it actually the mental game behind these activities that's the real turn on.

My point is that if you can identify, what it is about this act that turns you on, you may be able to find an alternative that's less likely to cause physical damage.