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Old 08-06-2009, 07:56 PM
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Question Is 15 too young to start bondage?

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Ok, I'm a 15-year-old guy, I live in the UK and I've been into bondage for a few years now. Anyway, some time ago i started to realise that having bondage fantasies wasn't going to be enough for me, so I started going on random chatrooms to look for someone who would attempt bondage with me

Surprisingly (and after a lot of time on chatrooms), I managed to find a girl at the beginning of the year who shared my interests and lived fairly close to me. We started talking and after a month or 2, we agreed to meet and try a bondage scene (with oral, fingering, various other light bondage-related activies), but when she got to my house, she became nervous and didn't wanna do it, so i took her back and she went home. This was in April

Since then, we've talked a lot more about anything that might be relevant (such as past experiences, limits, likes/dislikes etc.), discussed why she was nervous, and generally got to know each other better and we've agreed to give it another go and we're going to meet up again and she's assured me that she'll try not to be nervous, so i'm willing to give it another go

So, my question is this: is 15 too young to be doing this? there'll be no (penetrative) sex (at least not on the first meeting. plus we're both 15) and even if we were to start having sex, it'd definitely be protected...
any comments or feedback are appreciated
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Old 08-06-2009, 08:32 PM
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What is the legal law for sex in the UK?

I know for the US I believe it's legal if two minors go at it.

**Disclaimer** Either way you have already made your decision and I'm only giving advice on what I see. I intend in no way to persuade you in either direction.

I personally think if you are of age and able to handle the situation(if there was a child to come from it) then yes you should be able to do what you want. It shouldn't be a problem as long as you are not hurting anyone. By this I mean mentally or physically but bondage has its own little way.

Be careful and use a condom. Remember any ORAL ANAL or VAGINAL sex can result in an STD. This also happens with any fluid to fluid contact.

If you break any law then that is your choice I don't want you to but it's your life.
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