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Old 08-10-2009, 11:36 AM
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Ok so i am really into BDSM and my bf is to some extent. I am the submissive and he is the dom but he likes to switch roles and he told me i am the dom next time. Hes given me the permission to tie him up, but the thing is im new to the whole dom thing. Ive always been the sub. For first time dom, any advice on what to do, say etc? I want to keep him excited, and go outside the box, sort of speak, but i dont want to spook him. And im rlly excited to be the dom, i dont wana screw it up...help
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Old 08-10-2009, 11:44 AM
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If I where you I would ask him what he wants. Just tell him your not sure what to do because you have had never had any experience at it. I think he would be understanding.

Just remember to have a safe word that will stop anything that is happening.
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