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Old 11-07-2009, 08:11 PM
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I have always fantasized about being raped by a handsome man. I now fantasize about being raped and ravaged by my sex partner. I asked him if he could rape and ravage me, and he says that you can't rape the willing! He too has fantasized about raping me! Is there any way that we could act out each other's rape fantasies? Plus, I have been wanting to try BDSM, we already bite, scratch, cut, choke, and pull each other's hair and nipples, have anal, and he pulls and squeezes my breasts, we also already use hot candle wax, and blindfold and restrain each other with our hands. I am thinking that acting out our rape fantasies might move us from our already rough sex to more BDSM stuff, which we both would like to try without costing an arm and a leg!
Any suggestions would be highly appreciated.Thank you!
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Old 11-08-2009, 12:48 AM
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You could maybe bind each other while having sex maybe.

Like he could tie your hands or legs together in a way and have sex with you and you can act out a rape play.

I'm assuming you guys are very trusting and very close, just remember to always have a safe word during these things.

That's the best idea I can come up with for now.
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discuss it with him and see if he would be into acting it out.
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Old 11-09-2009, 09:49 PM
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Thank You for your thoughtful answers.Yes, my partner and I are extremely trusting with each other; I guess, we would have to be to have an open relationship! I will try all suggestions. i really appreciate your advice!
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