confused

[tweety]

im a girl 23 years old im married 3 years ago i love my husband alot thats much that i start feeling inscure.although i knw he hez very honest sincer with me but still im feeling loneliness at home im completly house wife and if i ask wht u do all day etc etc he get irirtate from me and my silly questions but whole day i was thinks alot abt him and just gettin hyper and than one day he beat me infront of him his friend and this friend is bad man he put fire on my married life by calling to my inlaws and tell them as well that all story and my husband also complain to my parents..1stly my parents angry on me but than they said he beat u that we cant bear it and take break up....although i said him sorry but he very angry nw im pissed off wht should i do coz here nmy hubbyin angry nt talkin to me and there my family angry.but i dnt want to leave him i love him alot but he also fedup from me and quiet im nt gettin and responce so im confused wht to do.

[crunchuu]

well my suggestion to you is jus leave him and be bold you do not need to secared from him any more everythin is acceptable in this world but to beat someone like animal is the most worst thing can happen so jus leave him

[tweety]

thanx but i dont like ur advice i told u i love him alot i cant think to live without him gimee sum other option and suggestion.

[SamIAm]

Does he hit you regularly or just that one time?

If it's in his personality to be violent with you, chances are that's a bad situation for you to be in. Adults in a relationship should respect and take care of one another. Inflicting pain to gain power is not loving behavior.

That being said, I do believe it's possible for someone to act out of character and then be forgiven--the same way I believe it's possible for someone to cheat on their partner and apologize and have the relationship restored. I believe it is rare, but possible.

So it's obviously your call if the relationship is right for you to be in. My advice to fix the problem would be normal ways of settling a conflict...talk about it with him, explain to him your concerns and your apologies and what bothers you, and encourage him to talk about himself too, and perhaps you can come to some sort of conclusion and resolve your issue. I wish I could give you more advice about this. I know the communicating thing doesn't work as well for everyone, but that's what works for me and my boyfriend so it's my suggestion to you.

Good luck! Take care of yourself,

SamIAm

[SHARRON IN PHOENIX]

Let me say i have been in some realy bad relationship were he has hit me. It alway startes with one hit and they say im sorry and i want do it again or they blame it on you, that you made them do it. That is such bullshit. If he loves you he will not hit you at all. And what every he says its not your fault. So dont blame your self.Its all on him , he is the one with the issuses.So i know you will leave when you want to, there is alot of help for you when you get ready to leave him. So dont be afraid to leave , no one will be mad at you, and in the long run you will be happy. So dont be afraid at all to leave. Iknow you said that you dont want to leave him because you love him but the truth is he doent love you. Because if he did he would not him you. So just think about it and dont let him end up killing you .