how can i let her go and get her out of my mind

[joemomma808]

my name is justin and im 16

i have been thinking about getting back together with my ex a lot. but after she told me that she felt our relationship we had in the past was just "neutral" and also telling me that she just had sex with her bf this morning. so im just ask for any tips that you may have on how can i get this off my mind because this is really depressing me.

[Xero]

Looking and finding someone else would be one way to get over her.

The only way that worked for me to get over someone was to think of all their faults. Everything that I put up with I used against them to get them out of my mind and to not care about them any more.

That's mostly all I got.

[Jo_]

You can also go out with your friends and make new ones, go to new places, go play games, go to concerts, go to the beach, have tuns of fun so that that way you don't think about her that much! Throw away everything you have from her, photos, text messages, e-mails, gifts, etc etc... Ask your friends to cheer you up everytime you feel like breaking down, they'll make you feel better for sure!

[leigton_18]

get over it my friend..you cant beg someone to stay with you if she already fall out of love with you..

find some one else..go out with friends and do something to forget about her..

[robv]

man you just got two options im in sort of a similar situation... just totally move on or try and reconcile whatever there still is between you... either way you cant let her know you are depressed about it.. you have to start hanging out with your friends again.. take up a new hobby or start an old one again just anything you can to keep your mind busy... mabe try going places were there are normally single girls... just hang out and it might help to have other female attention and you might start thinking about that girl instead of your ex... if you want her back or if your moving on either way you have to find something to do to keep your mind busy... just dont let yourself fall into depression it is hard to get out of it

[slittylicker]

Accept the fact that it's over and she is not going to change her mind.
One suggestion I can make is to have no contact with her at all. Don't pick up the phone and "dial pain."
Avoid her completely...don't try to be friends...at least not now. Allow yourself time to grieve and heal.
Every time you have contact, even by phone, it will take even longer to get over her.