How Do I Get My Ex Back

[SexyArnie87]

Hey Dan and Jennifer:

I'm Chris from Burlington, Ontario, Canada....
My Ex lives in Brantford, Ontario, Canada

My ex left me because i said i was going to kill myself cause i never got to see her every week, her 3 jobs were more important i guess....

Her and I really connected when we 1st met.. we kissed for 5 mins, 5 mins into our date....

On the 2nd date her and I were planning our long term life together (kids and everything)

Please Help me, get her back... i still love her and have feeling for her

[Dan And Jennifer]

You said you were going to kill yourself because you didn't get to see her enough?

If you really want to kill yourself, then please get some help immediately! Nothing is worth ending your life over...

But in this case, I get the feeling that this was more of a control move...

Recognize that it's her choice if she wants to work 3 jobs. You can tell her that you don't like it and that you wish she would spend more time with you. But, this is where your control over the situation ends.

No one likes to be micormanaged or controlled by another person. We all want to be loved and accepted for who we are - including you.

If you want to get her back or have a loving relationship with any woman, my suggestion is to spend some time learning how not to manipulate and control other people. Learn to accept them. Even if this means some professional counseling.