we were together for two yrs and in love but she broke it off how do i get her back?

[robv]

ok we were together for two yrs... we were totally and completly in love and had the real thing... her parents didnt like me and that was always a stressfull situation and was constantly being brought up by her parents.. (we are 19 and 20 btw) no matter what her parents thought though we loved each other and ignored them.. things got really stressfull because of the parents and other things that are too long to put in the post and we started arguing alot not about anything serious because we never had any problems but just about stupid things.. and because of the arguing we kind of didnt talk about our relationship and things that we were feeling like we should have i started getting jealous of her guy friends even though there was nothing between them it was just a selfconscious issue.. but all of these things together just made it really hard and she called and said she needed space and that was about three months ago... we have beeen officially broken up for about a month and a half now... we still talk almost everyday over email and i.m. and text... i know she still cares but i cant figure out why she wont give us a second chance... i always ask her to hang out just for like ten min or omehting to talk but she never wants to... idk what i should do... do i need to just not talk to her for a while or do i need to just give it time and keep things how they are right now and see were that takes us.... any advice would be helpfull

[Jasperky]

No offense, but are you sure she still cares? In couples that break up when one person still loves the other, the person who still loves the other often feels like the other still loves him/her. Sorry if that was a bit wordy.
My advice would be to find out why her parents don't like you, and to try and talk to her in person, ask her if she'll consider getting back together. Be honest about how you feel. If it's been a month, then maybe she's feeling that the issues you broke up over were a 'spur of the moment' thing.

[robv]

yea her parents have never liked me i mean thats not really a big deal to us but it can just be stressfull sometimes... and i have told her how i feel and i know she still cares because she talks to me pretty much everyday... she still tells me and talks to me about everything and i know she dosent to her other friends... and she also asks me ?s about how im doing and everything... and when we talk about us breaking up she says she still loves and cares but she just dosent know if she wants to try and fix things or not... i kind of feel like she thinks that the way things ended between us was kind of wrong on her part because she never talked to me about anything until she said she needed space and i think that she feels like shes not ready to get back together because maybe she isnt ready to talk about fixing things and admiting that she is wrong about some things... and she just started her first semester in college (we both go to the same school btw) and i think that maybe she just has alot going on and dosent know what to do... i feel like she wants to fix things but idk why she isnt ready to see me in person so we can talk about it... sorry if thats hard to follow lol.. but i guess im trying to figure out how to get her to see me so we can talk and see each other in person... idk if i should just keep talking to her like i have been or if i should stop talking to her for a week or two so that maybe she will wonder what im doing or something like that and maybe want to see me ... idk any advice?

[Xero]

Be there for her, if she just started college and this is her first year/time being in it its going to be stressful. I just completed my first week and found it almost overwhelming to where i wanted to just quit already.

Just let things go for a little while and let her discuss with you anything she wants. Then try to set up a time you can see her if she wants or will do that with you.

That's my best opinion.