Threesome after the breakup

[Sagitta]

My ex fiancee and I were totally in love and always talked about a threesome, but he pressured me so much during our relationship that although I always wanted to share that with him, the pressure kept me from sharing this with him.

We made mistakes in our relationship and although the wedding was cancelled and we are apart (one month now), we have both recently admitted to each other that we are still completely in love with each other. The breakup was sudden, and I think a result of cold feet and his lack of his own identity.

My ex has mentioned that we should both move on, but at the same time asked me what I thought about the threesome idea now that we are broken up. (???)

I was feeling good about the threesome as we were getting closer to each other and the wedding date, but now that we are split up... I just think it would cause me to want him more. I am desparately trying to accept what happened to our relationship and accept where I am now. I am trying to allow the universe to let me heal and give me the love that I always wanted (even though I thought I had it).

The question is... as I am still in love with him, is this a bad idea (threesome after breakup) or in your opinion, could we feel free to express ourselves to each other better now that we have some "space"? Is this something that might help us get closer and mend the relationship or is it a recipe for more heart ache?

Thank you!
Life Is Good!

[Saishuu]

I think if you still love each other you should get back together first and foremost.

Then have a threesome when your steadily on your way again!