finding couples porn
Hi,
My husband and I recently sent our kids off to college, and have had some other lifestyle changes that are allowing us to spend more quality time together. We have an awesome relationship; except our sex life up until a few months ago was great when it happened, but life always seemed to get in the way. But now, well, I think we are both acting like young people first in love, and it is extremely exciting.
We have been doing a lot of the things we did when we first met, for example, a romantic date that leads to sex in the car on the way home. And to some degree we have been exploring new things together, such as playing out each other's fantasies.
One of the things we did many years ago was occasionally watch porn together. Unfortunately we live in a fairly conservative area and the nearest place that carries adult movies is an hour away. We have gone there a couple of times now, and besides the driving, I find the quantity of porn there to be overwhelming to a novice, and we have had trouble picking out dvd's that appeal to us. The sales person at the store did recommend a few flicks that were supposed to be more couples oriented, but both of us found the ones we watched to be too focused on being sensual and not as much fun as we were looking for.
My husband says he wants porn that has some kind of plot, ideally one we can play out together. This is very appealing to me also. I am sure that the occasional really raunchy dvd would be great also.
We have spent a little time surfing porn sites that come up on google searches, and this is fun occasionally, although it hard to find stuff I like, so it is fun more from the shock factor together or from watching him, but what we'd really like would be to find a safe play to rent or stream porn movies, and unfortunately Netflix doesn't do adult movies. For internet safety, all you ever hear is "don't go to porn sites" and the thought of giving my credit card number to a porn site is pretty scary. But, I'd like to be able to take advantage of the privacy, the advantage of being able to really look for what we want that week, and ease of online ordering.
So my question is: where can we safely find porn to stream or order rental dvd's online? And are there sites that rate or review porn?
Thanks so much for your help and for having such a great open minded site!
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