Cheating wife?

[Bob in Ohio]

I don't really even know where to start at so I'll just briefly start from the beginning, My wife and I have been married for almost 23 years. During our first year of marriage I asked my wife if she had sexual fantasy's, she answered that her fantasy was to have sex with a black guy. Somehow this didn't surprise me and actually sort of turned me on. When we was driving home she went on to tell me who she even wanted to have sex with, a black guy she worked with.

She began to rent IR porn movies and when we'd watch them while making love she would always insert herself in the movie as the white girl and would tell me that is her. Well I used to think this was all fun and games in bed while we was having sex.

My wife left me about 12-months into our marriage, I was told she was running around with a guy she worked with and some other guys,,,hmmm. The only guy at work was the black guy and I later found out that the other guy was my own brother (who I now disown still to this day).

I filed for divorce and was moving on with my life when a tragedy somehow brought my wife and I back together. Well I asked my wife about someone telling me that she was running around with the black guy at work, she would tell me that she wasn't and that was not the truth. She didn't deny my brother, she knew she was busted on that one.

From time to time over the years I would tease her about running around with black guys and would tell her that if she ever wanted to screw around it could only be with black guys. She would many times smile at me when I told her this and kiss me goodbye. See I travel often and would always tell her that before I left.

This went on for years, me never really knowing for sure what she was doing when I traveled, I guess that was kind of the fantasy part for me, not knowing if she was sharing herself or not.

On Valentines day my wife surprised me with a hotel room. she called me on the way home from work and told me to come to an area hotel and gave me the room #. I didn't know what to expect when I got there, I have figured she would be in the room with a black guy, didn't know. Well when I got there she opened the door dressed in a very sexy nightie and had been drinking a little so she was feeling pretty good. As the evening progressed we got in the hot tub and was still having a few drinks when I asked her; Tell me your sexual fantasy's, she told me that her fantasy's was still black guys and even went into details of what she's do to them (very HOT) and her other was that she wanted to have sex with another girl,

I thought wow, what a hot wife. When we was making love that night she began to tell me to fu*k her white pu$$y with my hard black dick, telling me to cum in her, fill her with black baby seed, all kinds of sexy things like that. I asked her how many black guys she has been with and she told me at least 10, I asked how many of them, she sucked and let cum inside of her and she told me that all of them came in her and she pleased them all also with her mouth.

Now getting to the question and please forgive me for this being so long but I wanted for you to have the full story....

Since that night I asked my wife about her doing 10 black guys and she says that she hasn't, its all fantasy. In bed she'll go into more details of her being with them and things they've done to her and what she's done to them, very graphic details!!!

She still says she hasn't really done this but I don't believe her. I think she is giving it up to black guys and is going as far as telling me the details of each one. I don't tell her to stop by the way.

Do you think she is really sleeping with black guys while I travel or is this all fantasy? She works with a lot of black guys and I think she is giving it up to them. Please give me your honest opinion.

Thank you.

[Lee]

It could go either way based on opinion...

But if you really want to find out, you could hire a private investigator to find out if she's with someone else while you're traveling.

[Bob in Ohio]

Originally Posted by Lee

It could go either way based on opinion...

But if you really want to find out, you could hire a private investigator to find out if she's with someone else while you're traveling.

Thanks Lee. She has told me more stories of her and black guys. Just last night she told me of another sexual encounter with a guy at the university she attends. I fon't think these are fantasies at all, too much vivid detail.

Now the question is, how do I approach her for the truth?

[canadian_guy]

my ex wife cheated on me with one of my female friends . i walked in on them going at it , i didnt no what to do i was so mad.

[rob]

Are the stories the same? if there have rarely been any repeats, then it might not be true.
And the point of fantasies is to be vivid. If she keeps calling you a black person, then she is most likely still fantasizing.
The trick is to pretend you know-say 'oh, i met one of the black guys' or something, if she confesses or pauses or acts guilty, then you know. if not, use it as a means of fore-play and say you can do it better, or something.

[sexisgood4u]

Never marry a whore. When you are away you'll wonder if she's baning men. The best thing is just forget about it, but if you want to go home and go down on her you might think twice. Either way it sucks. It's what has happened to our country ever since we welcomed the chosen ones into our country starting around 1880.