Should I make her tell him and how?

[adam1990]

There is this girl that i have "been with" who has a boyfriend. We hold hands, hug and i kiss her on the cheek. She will not do more because she considers anything more cheating. I tell her that it is cheating because her boyfriend doesn't know what we do. Her boyfriend and i are not on good terms, seeing as he has does not trust her having any guy friends whatsoever, and he knows that i do have feelings for her. He has asked if i have slept with her, kissed her, and even had phone sex with her, and i haven't. However, how do i get her to understand that she is cheating on him, and how/should i get her to tell him about her feelings for me?

[fawkse]

maybe you should be the better person and tell her boyfriend about the cheating.

[Cocky]

Yeah, if you really want him to know (and break them up, because that's what it really is) don't get her to do the dirty work. You want it, not her obviously.

As an aside, you should wonder how deep her feelings for you are.