Cheating

[Moore in Dallas]

what will you do if ur partner cheats onces and confesses to you, u forgave your partner, after the confession she does it again but this time right in front of you and then comes back again to apologize? It is important that i get this help. Thanks for answering.

[Kimberly]

I would have gotten rid of her after the first time theres an old saying screw me once, shame on you, screw me twice shame on me it's not going to happen a thrid time

[Steve in Florida]

I she really wanted to apollogize she would have stopped but doing it right in front of you im sorry to say but i think she lost intrest in you

If you want to keep it you should try to spice things up with her what is she getting from these guys that she doesn't get from you and hope for the best!

Steve

[jjdubbie]

first of all, to clear things up..
confession is acknowledging you did wrong, apologizing and NEVER doing it again.
in this case, i would say she did not confess. she however just said "sorry" and tried to get by with it. and maybe she thought since you forgave her the first time, you'll forgive her the second time and hence she does it again. if she truely confessed, she won't be doing it again.
but if she doesn't sort out with you what she does wrong and just keeps apologizing
i suggest you not waste your time...

hope this helps
- jjdubbie

[Beagle]

One of the fundamental rules of relationships is that you can't change other people. You can influence them but you can't change who they are. My best friend caught his wife cheating. I'm a therapist, so he came to talk to me. I decided to be a friend, not a therapist, and I told him I didn't think he could ever get over it. He chose to end the marriage and later met a great girl who was much better to him than his wife ever was.

I'm not saying cheating is the automatic end of a relationship. Among couples who reach the point of divorce and stay together, in five years 85 percent of them describe themselves as happily married. After there's been an affair, only thirty percent feel that way in five years.

I think you need to look at why the two of you are together. Do you really think there's hope for this relationship or are you staying together because of children, joint property, social stigma, etc.