He Had Sex With a Guy

[YourEternalRest]

If he won't go to a therapist it's probably because he's in denial, which is another red flag for your situation. You also said you're worried that he won't talk or if he does, he would be lying. Communication is a key ingredient in making any kind of relationship work out. If he refuses to communicate with you or anyone else, it's probably not healthy for you to stay with him.

[Playmate]

I carefully read all these did a ton of research on the internet and realized if this was bothering me this much than i need to go with my gut feeling. He didnt want to do therapy, got mad when it got brought up and that id even ask when come on how could i not it was a fair question. I have decided to try to just be friends with this guy until he can come to understand his sexual identity if he wants to make it work than hes just going to have to seek therapy with or with out me. I just cant handle waking up 20 years from now 10 years from now or even months from now to hearing that hes gay and i wasted my time. I think hes in denial and usually gut feelings are for a reason so im following the advice ive been given, my intution, and what i have read from my research on warning signs.

Thank you all so much for you advice and support this was just not something i could go to my friends with and i appreciate this more than you know. Thanks for giving me your time.