Is My GF Pretending

[abhi]

I had sex with my gf recently.

When i ask her if there was any bleeding to know if she is vergin or not , immediatly she just hide her face in my lap. then after 2 mins she showed up her face and said there was some kinda colorless fluid came from her vagina and red color spots mixed in it. But I could not see it with my own eyes since she was in toilet.

finally i asked her why did she hide her face. she said she thought if i saw it .

did she lie to me ?

[Beagle]

There's no way to answer that with the information that you have. Girls have a membrane in their vagina called a hymen. This membrane tears (usually) at first intercourse and that is what produces the small amount of blood and discomfort. The amount of blood naturally varies depending on the person, and in the modern world many girls have stretched and/or partially torn their hymens with tampons, masturbation with objects, and even athletics. Therefore the amount of blood isn't a reliable indicator.

To make a long story short, there's no way to know with the information you have.

Now, I'm going to give you the real problem: If you can't trust her word, why are you with her to start with? If you can't trust someone's word, then you don't have a relationship.

[Xero]

Adding to Beagle's statement she may have felt embarrassed or insecure since you asked her.

I would suggest analyzing your experience again and then think about it before you ask your self such a question. You must imply all possibilities not just one.

[hunnyhunny]

the question is.. does virginity matters a lot to you? will you still accept her if she tell you that she had a few guys who nailed after before you got into relationship?... if it's a big deal for you then don't go into relationship, it's not love you are feeling.