his ex ... ??

[sunshine88]

Hii
well, im going to be briief...

My boyfriend and I have 1 year and 5 months , and we live together ... He hav a son, who i love a lot! .... thats not the point, the point is that like 9 months ago when he was living in another state, we had a fight, he was so mad and sad that he DECIDED TO GO TO HIS EX'S HOUSE at 3am !! I didnt know til 1 week after that happened, and of kourse i was pissed !! ... theen we had another fight and we broke up... during that time that we were not together he was down so his mom told him that he should get marry with his son's mom, and everybody was telling him the same, so he bought a ring for her, but she like said no, she said like they want them to life together again and blabla, so he returned the ring, and i knew all that bkuza one time i called her ex(I WAS CRAZY) and she told me that, the thing is that he said sorry and he told me that he didnt know what to do and everybody was telling him that it will be the best for his son, but he didnt really wanted to do that, it was something that he did without think ... anyways, now we are good, i dont have llike any problem at all with his fam, his fam loves me, his son too, and we are good thanks God,,, but sometimes i think about these problems of the past and i start doubting bout him, is like everything comes to my mind and i get mad at him just remembering all that happened, sometimes i think that he still love his ex, and he is lying to me and stuff like that ... what u guys think? do im just stock in the past?

[jbaileync1]

hi darlin ive not experienced what your going thru but i can tell you that my cousin has. and sweetie if you love him nothing else matters. and he and his ex obviously have a child together so yes there is some feeling there and there always will be she is the mother of his child but its more a friendhsip kind of love than what he has for you in my opionion yes he messed up but it was probably becasue he was distraught and men have never been the brightest creatures anyway lol the good lord didnt give us enough blood to circulate to both heads at the same time lol. but as i said i would count my blessings that he is with you and that you and his family get along. and this is me personally speaking when a man is distraught he will fuck up its just how we are we cant help it but since nothing happend you should be grateful and love him for it all the more hope this helps