Iam in love!!! but shes not...

[Prelude2Fear]

Okay... So theres this girl that ive known for about 3 and a half years now and i think im starting to fall in love with her, but the problem is that she dosent show anymore intrest in me then a freind and its driving me crazy because i dont know how i should tell her how i feel about her... im absolutly crazy about this woman, she is like no other woman i have ever met in my intire life, we have EVERYTHING in common just about we are into the same things the same music, same political veiws, you name it just about everything we have some what or a common sense for. She even finishes my what iam about to say! as if she if reading my mind or if he share the same brain waves. She even sounds like me when she is talking it will sound like somthing that came directly from my thoughts. I have told her in the past that I consider her to be the most amazing and the most beuatiful person i have ever met in my life, i know that i will never met another woman as amazing or as goregous as she is, other people might not think so but she means absolutly everything to me and i would do anything or give anything to be with this woman. I cannot see myself with anyone else! i know that she is soulmate! i know she is! Iam so in love with this girl when as soon as she leaves i already miss her : (. I think about her almost allday and all night... im absolutly crazy about this girl and ive asked so many people the same question and i have not found a good anwser yet!!! So i would appricatie it if someone could help me out with my relationship problem. How should i tell her how i feel? Should i tell her that i love her? Or should i just tell her my upmost feelings and that i want to be with her more than anything in the world?

[Kalim]

You are in the friend zone. It happens to nice guys. You will have to find a way to break out of that zone. You are considered a "safe friend" pretty much to her you are gay. Thankfully I have never had that problem.

To cross the line of the friend zone could cause some problems. Its a risk you might need to take. I'm unsure about the whole in love thing. Do not put her on a pedestal and let your mind fill in the blanks. She is a woman and you should show her that you are interested in her as a woman. Try very hard to not be stalkerish if you should cross the line. Know that she doesn't feel the same way as you do and it will take some time and a lot of restraint from you. I do suppose you could talk to her or maybe you should just get "her favorite flower" saying you would like to take her out. You will have to not act like a friend but really show your interest in her womanly aura? In other words you want more then just friends an you will have to drive that point across by saying or doing unfriend like things...

Or really what do I know :-) best to let an expert answer this