i like this girl but i think she is scared of relstionships, what do i do?

[brandon444456]

hi folks i know this girl and i really like being with he we spent the better half of the summer talking (online) and doing things together (movies, bowling, coffee, going to book stores, seeing plays/musicals/comedians and others) and the whole time i believed and still do that we both had a good time being together, we would flirt and the other stuff u do.

she has had some really bad relationships recently, almost two weeks ago i ask her out cause i love being with her but when i did she froze and ask me if she could "think about it"

upon seeing her expression i froze and persisted to revert to the bumbling dateless wimp i am used to being. it has been 10 days and we talk like we did b4 but with school starting back up and an illness going around we canceled the only in person meeting we were going to do since the day i asked her.

how can i remedy this situation, i try not to think of her as much as possible when we are not talking to one another but everything makes me think of her which brings me back to her frozen wordless face in the eternity (that was probible only a second or so) b4 for she requested time to gather thoughts.

i really like her please help me Dan and Jennifer

sorry about the horrible last post i was confused and rambled a bit if u can delete it i cant figure out how to

[brandon444456]

sorry for the P.S.

but i have tried to call her on the phone (we usually talk over IM) but usually either i am to timid or she doesnt pick up what do i do on both fronts

thanks again

[cukrik]

easy man. just leave her alone for a time and if she liked spending time with you you will be friends again

[brandon444456]

but is that REALLY the best way to go about things? just "play it easy" ive done that for 2 weeks and were back to where we were but is that where i want to be should i even make another move, cause i do want to

[cukrik]

you asked her for a relationship, she said she needs time to decide and she didn't told you yet- that means you must be patient and dont call her all the time just sometimes

[brandon444456]

thx u r right i will wait and see how things play out at college when it gets back into swing