Confidence and fear - Having difficulty making decisions

[j2dy]

Do you know what the majority of fear is? False Evidence Appearing Real. It is human nature to over exagerate everything, but we only learn from our experiences. i was in a three year relationship, I've got a lesbian mother, just tracked my dad down this feb who id never met until then, been to drug rehab, became a christian, witnessed to tons of people, and have a business running a dog kennel. And im only 20!! Im off to a happy start, ive gotten a taste of a little bit of everything so far. Somethings were out of my control, but ive discovered there is always to turn my neagatives into a positive in someway, even if its in the "lesson learned" catagory. Here is something fun just to try out. One time a day, do something that takes you outside of your comfort zone, wether its saying something nice to a stranger, telling a friend what they need instead of what they want to hear, or just making a new friend. Start out with the small things and slowly work your way up. Just try it for a week, and i promise you'll be amazed at some of the confidence it can bring.

[Hot Alpha Female]

What you decide is neither here nor there.

What is more important is the reason WHY you are making that decision.

Think about it like this. If you look back in your life and think about most of the decisions you have made in your life .. are they based out of fear, comfort, expansion or desperation?

And if all your decisions were based on the same thing ... then don't you think this would reflect in the quality of life you have and the kind of self esteem you have?

So when you are on a date and can't decide where to take her ... then ask yourself why is it that you are confused? What are u really afraid of? Do you want to take her to the movies because its the safe option. Or do you really want to take her someone special because you feel like you need her approval of what a great date it was.

So once you identify the cause of the reason behind each decision, then the actual decision itself is irrelevant.

It also means that when you are making a decision .. one out of fear and the other out of fun ... you can choose the decision that you made because it was fun .. and WIN the game .. before you even get any feedback!