did i screw up? - it's been 2 months, can i still ask her out?

[RobS00032]

ok i mentioned before about a girl named CHERYL and i was wondering its been 2 months and want i want know is do i still have time to ask her out.Or should i just forget about it?Im going there next week and I would like to ask her out,But how should I start my conversation its been a while.......I dont want her to feel that im stalking her.B ut i hav asked all my friends and their advice on this and they told me to go for it they beleive that shes interested in me.Could u people help me i need anything opening conversation piece i can get

sincerely
rob

[RobS00032]

OK a girl I like, i would like to ask out but i have putting it off putting it off,well alot of it has to be with work.She works in a salon and she asked me"So do you have a girlfriend"and I told her 'no'.Well I didn't ask her out right then and there.But is it true that by her asking me that question that she is interested in me or just being curious and just making conversation.Is she looking for herself too for some guy.......its been 2 months and i have yet to do anything im i waiting to long or do i STILL HAVE A CHANCE TO POSSIBLY ASK HER OUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!........I would like to know if i should ask her out or I'm i just wasting my time and shes not interested in me at all.She probably has this as her conversation with every guy that she does hair fo 'So you have a girlfriend".Because she didn't say much to me after she asked me that,which i thought was funny in a way.But maybe she was waiting for me to anwer her back about her having a boyfriend or if she was seeing someone.Let me know if anyone can answer this

[modernsavage]

Hi Rob,

Your thought process is mind boggling. You just posted twice with all kinds of reasoning and excuses of why you should avoid asking this girl out. It's been two months and your head is spinning because you are completely over thinking this whole thing.

You talk about wasting your time by asking her out because you think she might reject you. Well listen dude, you are wasting your time by NOT asking her out. In fact, you just wasted two months worth of time trying to figure out if she's interested in you or not.

So is it too late? No, of course not, simply put the nail in the coffin and ask her out.

When you go in there next week, blurt this out at random, don't wait for the right timing, just blurt it out whenever you get the chance:

"You know, you're really fun to talk to, we should grab some drinks some night"

It doesn't have to be these exact words but something similar, simple and direct. The key is to let her know that YOU are interested, rather than the more difficult task of finding out if she is interested.

If she says yes, then say, "what's a good way to get a hold of you?" Then she will either offer up her phone number or email, whatever it is, take it and give her yours in exchange. Suggest a day right then and there, preferably a weekday and set up the logistics. Don't worry about the next steps just yet, you can always come back and ask for more advice once you get the date setup, so just work on this first step only.

If she says no, don't sweat it, she won't give you a hard rejection. She'll likely be fairly nice about it and it won't be awkward either. She likely gets asked out often and knows how to avoid uncomfortable situations. Just be cool and let things flow naturally.

So, there you go. A pretty solid plan, worthy of taking action on. You can only get so much advice before you actually have to go for it. It's up to you now.

Go get em' tiger!

[Dan And Jennifer]

Originally Posted by modernsavage

So, there you go. A pretty solid plan, worthy of taking action on. You can only get so much advice before you actually have to go for it. It's up to you now.

Go get em' tiger!

Go forth young Skywalker, may the force be with you.

Let us know how it goes, we're rooting for you. Is rooting still used these days? Damn, you pass 30 and lose touch. LOL