Does she like me?

[ooze]

If she has a ring or bracelet, you can ask her if you can see it and hopefully she says yes and let you grab her hand. Thats 1 good way out of many to make physical contact. Anyways, Sam is also right. Be verry kind and friendly, do something great for her and she might give you a hug or so.

[BrassPlayer4Life]

ooze's plan sounds good because we don't have to be standing and the physical contact is more smoothly done that what I had planned. My plan would be more difficult to accomplish since we would have to be standing, so I'll ask her if I can see her ring/bracelet because we will be sitting in class, and in doing so, I will 1.) make sure my hands are very warm and inviting 2.) try to make eye contact and smile. 3.) give her a compliment saying it's one of the more pretty rings I've seen and say it looks good on her.

Thanks for the plan ooze, it's much better than mine. I'm more-so trying to create physical contact with her first, then flirt in the process, so I'll make this smooth and nice and slow. Thanks everyone!

[ooze]

You're welcome. keep the information updated.

[kettlekorn]

Is this a way to show your interest in her? And see how she reacts? Because that's a pretty good plan... I haven't planned out stuff like that before, but that's a cool idea! Anyway, I would say go for it and see if she likes it or not

I know how tough it can be to find the right time to ask her out or for her phone number in school... is she in any after school activities where you could talk to her? or maybe at her locker between classes really quickly?

[BrassPlayer4Life]

Yes, it's a way to see if she's intrested in me too and to see how she reacts. No, she's not in any after school activities with me, but I do know where her locker is and could stop by real quick maybe to ask her or something. Thanks.

[BrassPlayer4Life]

Okay, so on Friday on my way to band class the girl I like was standing outside the doorway off to the side away from the 20-30 students trying to get close to the door (the door was locked). I thought the doors would be unlocked pretty quick because that's happened before where our director is late or sick or something, so I decided I'd go talk to my friends.

As I walked by her, she immediately reckognized my presence; made eye contact with me, smiled at me (fairly large), and said, "Hi." to me. I smiled back and said, "Hi." too. Since it happened so quick and because I thought her friends were going to want to talk to her (they normally do), I continued towards the wall wear my friends were. I leaned up against the wall so I was facing her and right when I looked up, I noticed she was watching me (my guess is the entire time I walked past her). Well, I just made that a mental note, so I started talking to my friends about class and after-school activities. Everytime I looked around away from my friends, I saw that she continued watching me and we made eye contact throughout my conversation with my friends when I looked around. So I was talking to my friends, but making eye contact almost the entire time with her. Her friends never did talk to her, and when they tried she just said, "Hold on a sec." so they left her alone. However, while class was in session, we occassionally made eye contact with each other when I looked over through the sections during band class since I was "resting" (band terminology - waiting for your cue to play again). She always gave me a quick little smile too, so I smiled back.

In history, our teacher was telling our class that the same people are always reading (which is true), and said that we need to have everyone read. Well, I whispered to her, "Personally I'd rather listen than read wouldn't you?" She gave me a big smile and said, "Yeah.". I didn't think it was very funny at all, and I was more-so asking for her opinion, but I guess she thought it was funny because she chuckled when I started talking to her. I didn't get a chance to talk to her the rest of the day or class, so overall, it was sort of a bummer for me because I didn't get to talk to her (Oh well.).

I'm starting to think she is REALLY intrested in me now because of this past day experience, and it's been puzzling me for a while now if she does like me a lot more than I thought. I've noticed that whenever other guys try talking to her she always tries to get out of the conversation VERY quick with them or just ignores them completely, but NEVER me .

So, is she REALLY intrested in me now????

[ooze]

As I walked by her, she immediately reckognized my presence; made eye contact with me, smiled at me (fairly large), and said, "Hi." to me. I smiled back and said, "Hi." too. Since it happened so quick and because I thought her friends were going to want to talk to her (they normally do), I continued towards the wall wear my friends were. I leaned up against the wall so I was facing her and right when I looked up, I noticed she was watching me (my guess is the entire time I walked past her). Well, I just made that a mental note, so I started talking to my friends about class and after-school activities. Everytime I looked around away from my friends, I saw that she continued watching me and we made eye contact throughout my conversation with my friends when I looked around. So I was talking to my friends, but making eye contact almost the entire time with her. Her friends never did talk to her

Well for the fact, she does like you cause she started a opening conversation with you first. With all those eye contacts she did towards you is that she wants you're attention. It was a bad but also good idea you continued walking to you're friends.

Good: to see if she really is interested with you.
Bad: she wanted you're attention but you kept going on.

Basicly for the next time this happends, go talk to her. She knows theres allways time for her friends. And if her friends are around her but not talking, you should step up and go talk to her, so for the future, make sure you know what to say and do.

[BrassPlayer4Life]

Yeah, I feel pretty bad about not talking to her especially since she looked kind of lonely after I walked by her and started talking to my friends, so next time I'll talk to her. I feel really lousey about it all, but I guess it was just the timing of events that hurt me the most. It makes me feel a lot better though that now I finally know that she's intrested in me. Thanks ooze for your advice and opinions. I think I'm going to ask her out soon; I'll let you all know how it goes as soon as I do!!! Thanks everyone!

[kettlekorn]

You should've made a move and talked to her.. now she's probably wondering if you'll ever make a move. And yes, she likes you. No one would do that unless they liked you. Go for it!

[BrassPlayer4Life]

Like I said, I will next time. Oh well (shrug) .

I'm SO sorry for not mentioning this before, but I just noticed this. Instead of her saying, "Hi." to me first, I said, "Hi." to her first and smiled. Then she said, "Hi." back in a really nice tone of voice that I've never heard her use before; then she smiled a little larger than normal too. She still noticed my presence immediatley like I said, and everything else I said was 100% accurate. (I'm SO sorry, but I was typing fast and didn't notice.)

So, with this new knowledge, does this change any of your opinions, or not so much?

I'm going to ask her out sometime this week or next week, or just whenever we have some free time during class so I can talk to her; I'll let you all know how it goes.