How can i pick up more girls?

[lewis_ere]

I'm 16 never had a girlfriend....probably because im fat....but anyway is there anything i can do to pick up girls?

[scarbowl]

Be nice, considerate, and thoughtful.

Do: Ask questions of them, make small compliments, hold open doors, speak respectfully, remember their preferences, names of siblings, etc.
Don't: Talk much about yourself, complain about things, or bemoan your lack of experience.

Then start exercising and eat a healthy diet. Learn to dance (it's hard, I know), memorize a nice poem or two. Read current newspapers and books. And let her lead. Be persistent but not pushy.

Be well rounded. Yes, it's tough to lose weight and I've been a bit fat for 20 years now. But I'm working on it and I try to know interesting things to talk about. And to remember about her.

Wishing you success!

[Saishuu]

Its mainly a case of physical strength and long arms... helps you pick them up you see!

Try carrying buckets of water around with you everywhere you go, that'll help.

Seriously there are plenty of fat guys with girls so don't worry about that, also there are plenty of jackasses with girls so don't worry about offending anyone either.

Basically you need to start talking to them, invite them out, seriously what's better to them, being at home alone and bored, or having fun & a laugh with you?

Sod poems, dancing, eating healthy & exercising, chances are they are not into them either...

What do you do with your guy friends when your with them? how do you treat them? I bet your entertaining and confident, be the same with women, & you'll get a girlfriend soon enough.

*Edit* eating healthier & exercising is good, being a more normal size might make some women who would say no to you now say yes... like you would say no to a fat bird now but if she lost weight you'd say yes! you don't have to be stunning, you just have to look "good enough" for the majority of the population, which isn't very good looking if you got a personality to go with it, think of your mates with GFs are they that good looking? really?

[Alexstrandberg]

This is a really loaded question that requires tons and tons of information.

Basically take whatever your mother taught you about women and what most people advise you to do and completely ignore it.

Do:

-talk about whatever you want
-say whatever is on your mind
- push through any fears you have
-get a handle on your insecurities
-learn to be funny but not self deprecating humor
-breathe
-complain but not in a poor me way but in a funny way
-become socially competent. Go and approach every girl you see. Start by saying hi to everyone
-talk about yourself but no bragging
-don't ask too personal questions in the beginning. You don't want to hear about her ex boyfriend because she might go on forever
-learn to stand up for yourself
-accept your flaws
-Work out and get in shape. Boxing will quickly allow you to lose weight. Go to your local gym and hit the bag for 45 minutes three times a week
-learn to take care of yourself in other ways. Pluck your eye brows, shower regularly and so on
-learn to have self respect for yourself
-read my website
-have an entertaining life


Don't:

-worry about upsetting other people. Respect but don't censor yourself.
-compliment them until you can learn to do it in a non-needy way
-bend over backwards to make everyone like you


thats all I can think of for now