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Old 12-23-2008, 02:51 PM
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Cool How do i ask a gir out and get the date? cliche i know.

Hi i am a 20 yr. old guy and i am really shy, i have absolutely no game and i am some what of a geek. It is hard for me to make friends let alone ask a girl out. I just dont understand well how to make friends and hot to interact with people. I am not a total robot, but i just never learned. My biggest problem is that i dont know how to get a girl friend. I am kind of shallow, but i cant help it, there are some girls in my college who i like and want to ask, some i know others i do not. My first problem is the girls i want always have boyfriends because they are so hot. Second, i am kind of peculiar and the girls that i know probably dont like me, perhaps i should find a girl that i dont know, which leads me to my third problem, ow do you meet new people in a college and in general, remember i am shy, but i also get embarrassed really easily, plus i am awkward, and i think i might come off as creepy. My fourth problem is say i find a girl that i like, how do i talk to her, how to i ask her out, i am afraid of he whole thing, not just because of rejection, but because i am not smooth, and i definitely dont know what to say to her or how to ask her out or when. My next problem is that i dont have a car; i could walk into ton with my date, my college has a nice little town, but do i ask this girl to walk the 20 min with me? I would look cheap if we go to the school food court. What is considered a date, taking a walk, should i ask her just to hang out, i dotn know how to do that either. How do i know what girl is right to ask out and how do i ask her out? During school i go home on the weekends and the only free day i have is wednesday and the night time. Everything seems so impossible for me. Plus what do i do about my adrenaline rush when i talk to a girl, it just wont stop. what happens if i cant get any girl i like? please help me with this. What if cant find girl i am into who doesnt already think im weird? Once i start a conversation how do i keep it going if she has nothing to say or if we dont have anything to say?

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Old 12-24-2008, 11:41 AM
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Default Do self-improvement for a year

Start with "Unlimted Power" by Anthony Robbins and download "Emotional Freedom Techniques" (a free ebook) from EFT Home - World Center for EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques)

Your problems are much much deeper and getting a girlfriend isn't going to solve it.

Also read "Influence" by Robert Cialdini so you can understand people better.

Also learn martial arts and build muscle in the gym because some people may not "tolerate" the new you.

Master body language (strong eye contact, stand tall and puff your chest out) and develop a loud, resonating voice.

Master these things and hot babes will give you their numbers automatically.
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