PLEASE HELP best friend is dating girl I like andthe girl told me she doesn't like do I ask girl out

[help me with girl trouble]

Dear Dan and Jen,

I am a 12 year old middleschooler and there is this girl I like but last year I helped her get together with my best friend Owen. She talks to me sometimes and told me that she doesn't really like him she tells me about all her problems with him and I see her talking with friends behind there folders while they look at me and giggle please help what do I do?

Sincerely,
Girl Trouble Please Help

[Xero]

First off your friend will probably not handle this well at all. So if you want to risk it all you can talk to her about it. But be careful because she might not want you or him, then you have nothing because he does not want you as a friend because you tried/did take her. She might not want you possibly so then your left with nothing.

Its hard for me to come up with a solution to such a problem. I guess I would talk to the girl about her relationship problems, but you just cant go and help her destroy it unless she wants to.

Your friend is not going to like this at all, no one wants anyone to date their ex's, from at least from what I understand.

This is all the advice I can give to you for now.

[Mack916]

eh, id ask the friend what he thinks about you dating her IF, hypothetically, things didnt work out for them...and just judge off of his response...but i mean, he's a good friend, so give him the common decency and dont talk about him behind his back...yeah, you like her, and all, and she dont really like him, but SHE DID otherwise she wouldnt have gotten with owen...and if she really really liked you instead, why would she get with owen?? think about it man...dont lose a good friend over a girl...not worth it..

[jjdubbie]

you're only 12, there are lotsa things to be doing than stressing over relationships.

what i think you should do is sit and talk with her to see her feelings toward you, how she feels about you or just being boyfriend girlfriend.

if she doesn't like owen then you probably set her up with the wrong person...


this of course is just MY opinion
hope this helps
-jjdubbie

[Kyle1990]

Wait and see what happens with your friend's and her relationship. And then maybe wait a few days after they break up and then youshould bring the fact that you have feelings for this girl up with your friend. He should be understanding, but that doesn't mean that he won't be a little upset even though he is understanding. And you should ask this girl who she does like if she doesn't like your friend.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Stick with your friend and build a friendship that lasts for life.