how do i ask this girl out?

[XChaosUnitedX]

hi!

First abit bout myself. I'm 15 and i live in Sydney Australia. The thing problem i have is that i've been liking this girl for 3 years now and i've asked her out before to watch a movie with 2 of my friends and 1 of her friends(about a year ago). You could say it was a date, but she thought it was realy boring as i didnt even talk to her (how stupid am i). Now i stil want her to know how i feel about her and ask her on a date, but i lack confidence because everybody is saying im really ugly as i have thick eyebrows and close to a monobrow and im really dark for an asian.

So what should i do?

I'm hoping for a reply either on youtube or just on these forums. Thanks.

[jjdubbie]

first things first, the monobrow can be fixed it's not a big problem. take a pair of tweezers and pluck the hair out yes it might hurt but it's worth it

second point, if you were successful asking her to the date the first time then you should have no problem asking her to the second one.

friends are giving criticism so why don't you show them how its done?
they're saying you're ugly, prove them wrong by asking this girl out
as far as i know, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
which means, if you don't ask her you'll miss 100% of what could've been
but if you ask her there's a 50% chance
make sure tho this time when you ask her out, it's only the both of you.

this ofcourse is just MY opinion
hope this helps
-jjdubbie

[FemaleOrgasm]

Leadership/status is the most attractive (super) trait to women. It has many components. Here's some to start you off:

Body language: Stand tall (but have relaxed shoulders) , take up space and don't break eye contact until the other person does. Don't fidget or let your eyes dart around.

Voice: Speak with a loud resonating voice and just a little bit slower than normal. Use more pauses. Hum all the time to develop resonance. Avoid the high-pitched, fast "nice-guy" voice.

Words: Your sentence structure is short and simple. You use simple words because you're more interested in getting your message in the other person's head quickly rather than trying to sound intelligent. The ironic thing is that explaining things simply makes you sound intelligent.

Personality:

Resilience: You don't experience many negative emotions. It takes a lot for you to feel stress. You have a rapid rebound time. You don't complain or criticize. Even if you feel stress, you APPEAR cool, calm and collected.

Extraversion: You are relaxed and feel a lot of positive emotions. You are optimistic. You walk towards other people and start conversations. You have high self-esteem (you like yourself). You make other people feel good about themselves.

Explorer: You continually learn new things. Your life is filled with many interests and hobbies (this makes you interesting and mysterious). You like to visualize your goals. You love art and music.

Focused: You move towards your goals (rather than moving away from problems), You focus on one thing at a time until you've finished. You don't multi-task (because this causes stress, is unproductive and lowers your IQ more than smoking pot), You focus your attention for 2 hours at a time then you take a break for 20 minutes where you are completely unplugged. You continually improve yourself and your products. You eliminate distractions like cell phones, email, TV etc when you focus on your projects. When you focus, you are completely relaxed and in the zone.

Challenger: You don't let other people dominate you. You punish all bad behavior (build an arsenal of constructive criticism, witty insults, legal skills and martial arts skills). You say NO calmly (ie NOT arrogantly) to people or things that don't meet your high standards. You can become a vicious mad dog if someone crosses the line. Stop apologising for being you. Unless you break the law or act like a jerk, you've got nothing to be sorry for. Give yourself permission because no one ever will. Say to yourself “I give myself permission to do that thing and I deserve to have it." You are cocky AND funny. You say and do things that are part cocky AND part funny. Don't do too much cocky because you'll come off as an arrogant jerk. Don't use too much funny because you'll come off as goofy. This is a counter-intutitve way of communicating with women that makes them extremely attracted to you. You can tell you're doing it right when she's laughing, pretending to be mad with you and playfully hitting you.