Girls are attracted to me, but I'm bored with them

[justhisonce]

Yeah so the follow up diagnosis is, I'm gay. No, sorry. It's not that easy. I love how women are made. Their body, how they think, ect. Here's the deal. I go into a bar, club, or grocery store and see it in their body language, hear it in their words, that they find me attractive. I can talk, but not walk. That's right. When I have her where I want her, I lose it down there. Gone, no feelings. It's fucked up. Now there's two frustrated people. She gets no dick from me and I just plain don't care. I don't even feel bad about it. My junk works fine solo or when I'm in long relationships, but I'm not the stud rolling through town that I may look like. I could do the whole Viagra thing, but then I'd have a hard dick and still be bored. Where's the spice in my life?

[Dan And Jennifer]

Sounds like you ARE "attracted" to women but for some reason when it comes down to having sex with a woman you run into a problem. Is that what you're saying?

Because that could be caused by a LOT of other things, certainly not just being "gay". Maybe nervousness, trauma from a previous event that you'll need to work through, something along those lines.

Focus less on the gay or non-gay label on more on the specifics of what you want. Do you fantasize about men or women?

[justhisonce]

Yes, sex has been naught recently in my life. I fantasize about women when I'm 'dancing with myself'. I loathe using a condom, and at the same time am scared of getting an std or getting a girl pregnant. I've had two good long relationships with great women and never had a problem. We split for reasons that they were both bad girls, which I fall for, but I couldn't endure their addiction to drugs. Whole other story. I can't think of anything traumatic that's happened. These women recently with whom I've failed with at the point of intercourse have all been empathetic toward me, blaming it on alchohol, stress, whatever. It's very nice of them, but all I can do is look down and want to curse the "@#$%%&*" out it. Also, I don't see what women find attractive about me. I don't see myself having a low self esteem, but I think there are guys much better looking than me, that they don't want. Go figure. I lean toward married women since this has happened. They are more compassionate/mature it seems. I hate to be a dog, but I find myself fantasizing about my freinds' wives. You guys are right about the nervousness. O.K. so here's my analogy... Recently my experience with women has been like a baseball player who hits the ball everytime. I walk up to the plate and know I'm going to hit the ball. It's like not even a question. No matter what the pitcher throws me I nail the ball, but the f*cked up part is I don't care what happens to the ball. I turn around while it's in mid-air and walk back to the dug-out. And my teammates are like "what the hell bro?That was a homerun!" I just shrug it off and tell them they can run the bases for me. Thanks for your time Dan and Jennifer

[Beagle]

It doesn't sound like you're gay. Have you had your testosterone levels checked? Low testosterone can cause what you're describing.

[justhisonce]

That's the first I've heard. I'll look into that and get back. Thanks

[Saishuu]

Be scientific about this.

Go get a man into bed with you and see if it performs.

[justhisonce]

Saishuu, thanks bro'. Umm I'll get right on that.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Then only focus on women that fit that description.

[Saishuu]

Originally Posted by justhisonce

Saishuu, thanks bro'. Umm I'll get right on that.

Don't say your gay then

easy eh? ^^