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Old 12-30-2008, 03:21 PM
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Default You absolutely wrong

When they take polls they take them for a reason. When they want a poll to go a certain way they will poll certain areas. If they want people to approve of interracial stuff they will take a poll in the city and primarily Jewish parts. They can look up names in the phone book and take polls of certain people.
You are wrong about Wyoming and mountain people in general. When people see you they don't say or do anything, because if you cry they get arrested. I can assure you if they took a poll of people in the states of North Dakota, South Dakota, Wyoming, Montana, Idaho, Kansas, Nebraska, but don't include any cities the poll would be 90% against. Stay in your city where you are safe.
The same thing when they want a poll to go for a certain liberal candidate they will not poll the Bible belt.
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Old 12-30-2008, 03:30 PM
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Default They don't swing in the mountains

Your lifestyle spreads diseases. This is what happens to a White woman who mates with a Black. She swings or gets involved with drugs.
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Old 12-30-2008, 04:35 PM
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Your lifestyle spreads diseases. This is what happens to a White woman who mates with a Black. She swings or gets involved with drugs.
That's a very general assumption which is statistically improbable.

First, swinging in no way spreads diseases any more than single college kids having sex spreads diseases. In fact college kids are way, way less likely to use protection and make educated decisions about who they have sex with than grown-up adults (referred to here are "swingers", though we're not fans of labels).

It sounds like you had a bad experience, and I'm sorry to hear about that, but it's not in your or any else's best interest to base you expectations of all future relationships on that one situation.

Instead try to learn from the past and see how you can make it a little better next time. Just a thought to ponder.

But swinging is a different topic altogether. Let's keep this discussion to the topic of this thread, which was the question of interracial dating - and which has been covered already in good depth and yes even from wildly different perspectives.

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Default Blacks and Whites being bussed to the same schools caused the problems.

Kids should go to school in the areas they live. It caused all kinds of problems in the sixties. Now the damage has been done, but people should just have moved out of the cities and towns and moved in the country and the heck with the bussing.
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Old 12-31-2008, 09:48 AM
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The wheels are officially off the wagon regarding this thread.
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When they take polls they take them for a reason.
Yes, it's called "accuracy."
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When they want a poll to go a certain way they will poll certain areas.
It sounds like you are unfamiliar with the concept of a scientific poll. For a better understanding of this science, check out, "How Polls are Conducted," in which Gallup Poll editors describe their methods.
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When people see you they don't say or do anything, because if you cry they get arrested.
Ironically, this statement proves our point. Assuming this is true, then the original poster and his white girlfriend would be safe wherever they go, regardless of how others might feel about their relationship.
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Your lifestyle spreads diseases. This is what happens to a White woman who mates with a Black. She swings or gets involved with drugs.
Neither of us have a disease, neither of us use drugs, and Sheryl was swinging long before getting involved in any interracial relationships. Furthermore, our single lady friends who date interracially tell us that black men tend to be a little more possessive, and thus they are less willing to share their ladies. Based on this pattern, a white lady would be less likely to get into swinging by dating a black man.
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Kids should go to school in the areas they live. It caused all kinds of problems in the sixties. Now the damage has been done, but people should just have moved out of the cities and towns and moved in the country and the heck with the bussing.
What in the world does this have to do with interracial swinging? We're not quite sure what this "damage" is that you are referring to, but we genuinely believe that the country we live in today is better and stronger than it was 40 years ago, and we are proud to be living in it.
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Greg and Sheryl, thanks guys for the insightful answer, always good to see your perspective.

I was close to removing some of SexIsGoodforU's comments in this thread as they do border on race baiting and stuff like that simply has no place in this community. But nevertheless, in the spirit of openness I'm glad to see those points addressed.

Just a reminder / warning going forward, Please keep ALL comments respectful to the community, positive, and helpful. All 3 of these are required for every post.
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Black, white, yellow, tattoos, neuter. All fine to mix or match. Date, marry, procreate, be happy.

Interracial relationships mean you love the one you're with. Most people don't get to choose where they socialise, just who in that place to socialise with.
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Default No. Biggie

First of all anyone who thinks there is a problem with that is clearly lost. Second of all my mum us white and my dad is Spanish-Italian. They have been married for 17 years. I'd say the only place there a problem is probably in redneck areas like smaller towns.
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Hey, I got no problem with it! I find women of all races sexy. I think it pretty common, especially in major cities these days. Though, I've gotta wonder, I see a LOT of interracial couples where there's a black man dating a white woman, and very few of the converse... which leads me to believe (unless they've all gone lesbian in the predicament... LOL) there there HAS to be a goldmine of available black women out there! How does that work in practice? :scratches head:
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