how and what do i do

[bell89815]

well i have geen going to this gym for the past 3 months and there has there is this counter girl that i like we have flirted a little and talked some but not much more than that and i live in a small town and it is not that i cant ask her out it is i done want her to say yes and then go on a dumb date and not get the chance for date two can you give me some ideas

[Beagle]

Yes. A patron getting a date with someone who works at a gym is very tricky, but not undoable. Start out with something light and fun. You might want to ask her to just go for ice cream or something small and light. Then you can use that time to find out what she likes to do. Since she's probably active, maybe rollerblading or a run?