What do i do?????:confused:

[4m2r2n]

my story is a bit long plz put up with it...
2 years ago i thought i would never like a girl or fall in love or anything then i met sum1 who made me think different she was a tomboy i really liked her. she started hanging out with me and my friends.we were really good freinds(not boyfriend and girl friends).then 1 day i realized she was devoloping a crush on 1 of my other friends.i cud not stop it she then told me about it 1 day and asked me 2 ask him if he liked her but i knew he would not admit it. i then asked her 2 find out herself by asking him out.she then came up 2 me upset next day and told me that he absolutely did not want to go with her.since then we started hanging out more often it was fine but i did not ask her out or anyrhing but she definately got over him.
then i heard people making up rumors that im going out with her and stuff and i dint like that i started avoiding her as much as i cud and i felt bad about it, deeeeeeeep down i know that i still like her and stuff i even told her about the reason for me avoiding her she just looked sad on hearing it.
oh ya 1ce we kinda went out(i dont know if it was a date)-i asked her 2 meet me at the park and she did we were alone(not with my friends) and all we did was chat for an hour and walk around.
what do i do ignore the crowd or stick to her and tell her about how i like her and stuff?

[Beagle]

You do both: Have activities with friends adn one-on-one time. Trying to isolate her won't work, but if you don't have anyone one on one time, there's not much chance for romance. I've ahd some great relatioships develop hanging out with friends. This helps the girl see you as relaxed and knowing a guy has friends is actually attractive to a lot of girls. But you need some one-on-one time to let romance flourish.

I think the confusion is coming from over analyzing. Just start enjoying the process of beign with her and see what happens.

[Confuzzled?!]

I think your problem is worrying too much. You should not avoid her just because of some silly rumors. Try to regain the friendship that you guys have already had and put it back to normal. You should continue to hang out with her in groups, but also try to spend more alone time with her.

Also, you should try asking her on a date. Be specific and clear that it's not just the two of you hanging out, but a date.

Just go for it. It's better than wondering.

No Fear!
Hope I helped

[Xero]

Both of the above posts are correct.

Time in groups and time with her along is completely fine and good.

Do ask her when you feel the time is right, and make sure you are in a nice place that you can talk and are alone.

You could ask her "Do you think we could be more than friends?" OR "I really like you would you like to go out with me?"

Don't use the word Love use Like, Love is too strong. I'm just telling you this as a word of caution so you don't mess up. It's OK if you love her now and she doesn't love you back right away its completely fine. Just tell her you like her and let time pass when your going out then you can drop the Love bomb.

Good Luck.

[4m2r2n]

thanks guys
i'll do it gotta get all my courage and do it