Fun Casual Date...Big Bad, First Impression?

[viviennescarlett]

i had a great casual date last night. we were with friends in a theater & he kissed me. of course, i kissed back. i decided to go for a make out session & we got a little intimate, no sex of course or oral, just lots of touchy-feely. we talked about dating casually & in time getting in a possible relationship; i don't feel i made a mistake last night. it was great & i'm not a bad person. we know each other through my best friend & it seems like he's won there approval. i just am completely clueless about casual dating. help? (btw...he's 18 & i am 17)

[Xero]

The age is fine.

Just find something social to do. EX bowling, walk in the park, tv/movie at home, mall, friends n him.

That will keep things from being completely sexual. You want there to be more than sex if you want the relationship to last/be long term.

So find some common ground and learn about who he is.

[viviennescarlett]

sucks to be 17. wow.so you don't think i made a bag impression?

[Xero]

No, I don't think it was that bad of a first impression.

Just slow things down and keep it at the level that it is for awhile. When and if things like this happen again stop and explain to him how you feel. Or at least do it when you feel conferable.

There should be boundaries for awhile if you want the relationship to last. You need to set it into a non sex relationship for a bit of time to get to know each-other or the relationship will only survive and be sex oriented.