how long to wait to have sex

[girlwonder]

I am curious when you first start dating someone and getting to know them, and you don't want it to be a one night stand or sex buddy but perhaps long term- is there such a thing as too soon to have sex? and given the "emotions" involved in sex even if you both want it should you wait and how long?

[Chill]

well i will say wait till married.
but with me was not wat we did and did give us lots of problems in our relationship and we did get married in the end but with big bums in the road. the one thing i see with my wife friends men are not one to commit so i say wait. but talk about it with him. some queations that need to ask wat your long term gaols and wat birth controls are you going to use both of your choices and he must rerspect that. next the other thing is condoms prevent STDS and pregn but only 60% effective the pill has lots of hicups like some herbs and antibiotics and of as normal the pill is also used to make some women more fertil. but will say sex and making love is some thing that in a relationship is very strong and meaning full . but check your man first sex and making love is the abilty to bring children in to your life can be the best thing for you and him so make your choice it very important to be happy with your choice mext thing is it yours speak to your freid but keep the line it your and his moment.

[YourEternalRest]

The amount of time you should wait depends on you AND your partner. Don't jump in the sack with him if you're not ready for it yet and at the same time, don't pressure him to have sex with you if he is not ready. Communicating with him will be the way you both will find out when the time is right for you.