what does it mean when she always changing her mind

[jacob m 01]

hi im a high school student and really like this girl and want to be with this girl i reaall like but What does it mean when she is always going back and forth sayin she likes me and then another time I ask her she says she dont like me and it alwayz goin back and forth between the two answers

[BrassPlayer4Life]

If she's saying she likes you, then another day she says she doesn't, that means she's unsure of herself.

Try spending more time with her and doing activities with her. This way, you'll know for sure because she'll have fun with you and flirt with you and things of that nature if she likes you, or if she doesn't and is bored around you and you two aren't laughing and flirting and such, then she doesn't yet and you should find someone else or keep trying harder.

You can either try to get to know each other more so she'll like you more if she already does, or you can just find someone else. *Hint Hint* Try the first one!!!

[Alexstrandberg]

It could mean one of a million different things, so it's best not to worry about who likes you and who doesn't. Never ask her if she likes you. It shows her that you are way too concerned with what other people think of you. Asking her will actually cause her to not like you

Generally, it could mean one of two things:

1. She enjoys the control she has over you by making you chase her. Addictions are formed not by rewarding all of the time. Gambling is highly addictive because the person wins big every once in a while.

The same might be going on with your situation. She says she likes you then another time she doesn't and you become very addicted to her.

2. She really does like you but she is nervous. It took me a long time to realize women are actually just as insecure and unsure of themselves as men are. I always seemed that women were so confident and comfortable in their own skin. I thought that way until one day it dawned on me that it is simply not true.

This kind of back and forth behavior from her could be her nervousness in play.

For me personally, I wouldn't bother with a girl that is wishy washy in her opinion of me. If she is controlling, like in the first example, or too scared to say that she likes me then it's not worth my time. I want a girl that is confident enough to genuinely show interest in me.