how to talk to a gril on the phone ????

[Mike in ottawa]

hi my name is mike

I met a girl at a gym and she was nice,good looking ,smart . i liked her a lot then we talked for a long time then she let me have her phone number when i asked for it. and then when i got home it hit me i do not no what to say to a gril on the phone what do i do

[Dan And Jennifer]

Hi Mike,

So many guys get into the long phone talk thing and scare girls off. Don’t fall into that trap!

When you do call her, keep it very short and simple. She needs to get to know you... so when you call her, do so with the goal of inviting her to do something with you.

And make this first activity together something simple and non-threatening. A fun activity, like a movie, a concert. Don't overdo it or you'll seem desperate and clingy.

If you have her cell phone, maybe even text her, it's even less threatening, and lots of calls go to voicemail anyway; and that can be awkward. Jennifer disagrees with me on this btw, so make your choice. LOL

Oh, and how long should you wait before you call her? Many "experts" will say a certain number of days, etc. I say that's bogus. You call her the next day or whenever you comfortably get to it - don't play head games, that's not a good basis for a potentially blossoming relationship.

[cukrik]

jennifer and dan said pretty much everything I just warn you that you should not talk with her very much. Why? because for girls is fun to talk with people but for boys its tiresome to talk a lot. You will end up being exhausted wreck and your tounge will fall out. How to shorten phone calls? before calling realise the topic. joke more during the call. and dont call her if you have no reason or topic . that's my advice

//EDit: feel free to ignore my advice