What to do in this situation?

[Kor8beau]

I met her over a dating site. we hit it off so good that we chatted a few hours and she gave me her number to call her, so I called her. we decided to meet, we went for a beer and we ate a pizza. everithing went pretty good. we talked, we laughed. we stayed together for about 3hrs. we talked afterward via messenger,she told me that she hade a good time, she found me confident, intelligent, and others goods compliments. I Todl her that I like too see her soon.. she said yes...but she cancelled.
I asked her again if we could see each other the day after, she said yes. so as I was getting ready to meet her on that day, she sends me a sms cancceling the date... she tolfd me she did it because she doesnt feel to good, she doesnt have a job and that she would not be good company for me.So we didn't meet. we kept talking via messenger, one time it happened that we dind't chatted for 2 days, and when we chatted she wrote to me tha she was happy to see me ( connected and chatting with her. ) we talked, like we used to do, for hours. and on one those days that we were chatting, she asked me if I like too meet with her again, I said yes , that I liked too. so we decided for sunday , that she wanted to do a pick nick, she asked me what is my favorite sandwich, she was going to prepare-it.
But in the night before the pick nick, we were chatting, and she told me that she dind'nt had the time to make the sandwiches. I told her that I would do it. But something happenned that day, my friend needed help cause he had a problem,I didn't had the time to make the sandwiches either. When I called her i told her that, so we decided that we wil go to the parc and that we get something to eat on the way. So we meet. we walked a little until we find a place to sit.She tells me that she doesnt feel good today, that she though about cancelling but if she had done that , she was affraid that I was gonna think that she didn't wanted to see me, so we talked for a while, I told her a few jokes, but then big clouds full of rain were appoaching, We had to go, cause it was going to pour... as we were walking back to our cars, I asked her if she wanted to go and eat somewhere, she said no, and told me that we should eauch other go home. I saw her for about 1 hour.

we keep on talking on messenger, she told me that one day she would like to go and play golf with me.
I like her very much, but I dont know how to handdle this situation

[fawkse]

i have met people online, and tried to meet in real person. for some reason, it never went well after that.
the last time i met a guy and tried a date was through myspace. my fiance and i seperated for a while, and i wanted to try a go at soemthing new.
this guy was amazing. we talked for hours on yahoo messenger and the phone. our first physical date went very well (movies).
after that date, everything changed. he kept on about me not calling him, which i didn't do as much as he wanted. when i did call, he wasnt around.
we finally got around to a second date (movie at my house).
the date was great, but he called and messenged me telling me that i wasn't showing him that i cared by not calling him.
i got very confused, but i just let him go. some people are very odd, and i believe that he was just one of them.
take it slow with her. things will be what they should.
don't settle for this though. keep your head up, and look for someone else that will be happy with seeing you more and more!

[Kor8beau]

thanks for the advice....I'm taking it slow wiht her... got no choice..we didi't chatted for about 2 days again, and when we chatted I sense that it makes her feel good to talk wiht me...we chatted for hours again. but then again I called her yesterday on the phone, cause the day before she was not feeling good, I leave a message, I didn't ask her to call me back, I told her that I was calling her to see how she was doing, I din'dt ask her to call me back, cause I figured that she might called me back, normally...but no...I kind a got the feeling that she wasn't going to call me... I dont know why,
But when we chat on the net, we could go on for hours, but over the phone, I dont know what's happenig ? I'm a confident man, I show her no sings of needyness, I'm not asking her if she wants to go out and do something, cause the few times I asked her she sayd no...
we have seen each other in a month only 2 times. and the second time,she was the one to asked me,and it didn't lasted very long...

she has her problems that she doesnt want to talk about it....
she mention to me onnce that she wasn'T very confotable wiht her weight, But I dont see no problem wiht her weight, she looks fine to me...
last time we chatted she told me that she was feeling tense and anxious, I called the next day left her a message and she hasn'T called back.....

we met on this datin site, what cauht me her attention was tthe fact that she's looking for someone to built a family with. and she's beautiful too

[fawkse]

keep up being persistant. she may be just very shy, and very self consciencious about using a dating site period.
it may take a while, but she may start to see that you genuinely feel great about her.
send her a link to this website. i think she may find a lot of usefull information here.
later