I am a sophomore in high school. There is a girl in my german class who I am interested in. We have talked a little bit, and she finds some things that I say funny. Most converations start with a certain event happening that we both find humor in. We have discussed movies and TV shows sporadically, and even some politics. These are usually quite short conversations, because they are only in class. I really want to talk to her more, and am wondering how to start converations. What should I say when she walks in? She sits right behind me. I think that things like "how is your day going" are really corny, and neither of us are into small talk very much. I am currently browsing this online dating site but i would like to know if there are any other good sites that can help me sort my problems.

I have always found it awkward to approch the guy and make the first move weather in a bar or in a coffee shop or other area. i am good at the flirts, looking at him when afar, gently touching him in conversation etc.. but never know quite how to talk to or get the attention of them at first. Any suggestions would be good thanks.

Hi,
I am an (east) Indian guy living in the US. I cannot call myself single (both ethically and legally) because the divorce is in progress in India.
It's been just two years and would take six more..

Nevertheless, no matter how much painful it is.. I must move on. But I have A.D.D and I am shy... exteremely shy to make friends. It stems from my early childhood and later beliefs that I don't look good (as a youngster). I have taken hundreds of self portraits and don't belive this anymore... but how do I make friends? Even casual male friends?

Next, there are no Indian girls here and I believe American girls are not going to be interested in an Indian guy. Even if they were, they would not be interested in a creep I am becoming... See I havn't had sex at all in the last 3 yrs.

Because I havn't had sex at all in the last 3 yrs I sometimes feel crazy and look at the face of every girl on the street.... but that makes me feel even worse.... Even if I could have it I am not sure how well I will do because it's been such a long time....

In short:
* How do I make peace with my situation?
* make some friends?
* How to get some sexual satisfaction legally?