Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex for out first time soon, but I'm afraid of losing my virginity to him due to his size. He is about eight inches long, and about three inches in width.

I've been watching your videos, and I know that lots of lube is necessary, but I'm still kinda afraid of him hurting me.

He has suggested I use a dildo in an attempt to help the transition, but is it still dangerous?

This question may sound a bit nieve and I am not, but, I have often wondered...My man likes to take it up his you know and it is always ready to easily take it. (I mean it glides in with ease) When he does stuff to me there, and not often, even with a lot of play it is not easy to stick stuff in. Why is his easy? Does he do things with men or did he just do this a lot with other women in the past like this? Any advice? I am not upset by this just puzzled?:confused:

Hey, me again with the same problem. What is it? Well, if you haven't read my last post, it's that I'm in love with my best friend (and we're both girls) and I wanted to confess to her. But my last post went something like this: But before I could even confess, she ended up moving-- it ended before I even tried. Of course, I tried to end it on a good note: we had a party and everything. But of course, at the party we were watching a movie a/b gays... sorta and, well, I got my answer: someone called the gay a "faggot" and she said she would never say that, but she would never be gay either-- so like i said before, I got my answer before I even got a chance to say anything.

(That was just a pretty long update...) After that, she invited me to her house in a dif. state and I spent some time at her house. I was supposed confess then but I ended up ditching out of it-- so after that, I was able to say goodbye. It wasn't very emotional--

After that, I changed my number and didn't call her at all during the summer... by august, I found out that she got my number-- when she called me I started freaking out cause, i mean... like how did she get my number? but when I answered after like the third time she called, we've been calling at least once a week or so and catching up on stuff.

And like I said before, this relationship just won't end-- she invited me to go to a boarding school with her (i know, i know-- boarding school? are you kidding me?) but she said that we would be together if we did-- I was thinking the same, but I can't believe she actually said it :P She also keeps telling me that she wants to see me again... and she tells me that I'm the only one she's still in contact with almost every week, b/c she hasn't called our other friends in weeks... so I'm starting to think that there's a bit more to all this than "just friends"... i hope. And I'm wondering, is it normal for her to be... how should I say... this into me (???) if we were just friends... Of course, she did say that "she would never be gay herself) but then again, I always said things like "that's gross" (no offense, but it just kinda came out) whenever we said anything related to gay relationships... [my point for that is that she might be lying like i am about it]

my point is, it's to the point where I really don't know where she stands-- is she at least possibly interested? should I confess or not? b/c if i don't, i could end up going to school together with her again and acting like friends and progress from there (maybe...)-- or if i do, i could find out right away and not be bothered by this again-- of course, if i do, there's the possibility that she might feel awkard about it and reject me and we end up not going together...

This is more of a curiosity post than anything.

As a bisexual, I have found that there are many stereotypes and general insults that insult me that don't insult others and vice versa. I was wondering about how any of you fell, be you homosexual, heterosexual or bisexual.

One example is that I personally am just sick of the 'experimentation' stereotype surrounding bisexuals, that we aren't bisexual we just haven't decided.
Anyway, this extends to Katy Perry. Some bisexuals may be groaning around now. Anyway, her song 'I kissed a girl' reinforces this stereotype and yet is in the mainstream media. Ok, I know that some people might not find this offensive, I'm just saying my opinion. Any song with the lyrics (you're my experiment', 'not the way good girls should behave' etc in should not be considered inoffensive.
Anyway, I have been known to rant on for hours about this song. I just want to know what your opinions on these matters are.

I am 35 and for the past 7 years I have been unable to have any kind of sex oral or anal with another person. The few times I have tried I get scared, feel like I cannot breathe, feel dizzy, feel guilty if I cum, cannot relax and sometimes will have a panic attack. Maybe once or twice I have been able to meet someone to masturbate with but no more than that.
I have a partner of 11years and have an open relationship. I am HIV + and he is not. We do not have sex together because of this at his request. The people I am trying to meet are from the internet and I worry about safety and people using illegal drugs. Due to my HIV status I wonder if I just need to accept a sexual life of masturbation only? I long to be with a person sexually again but Im afriad I may not be able to overcome these issues.