Ok so I am 20 years old and me and my girlfriend have just become sexual active now....she was a virgin before. But yea, she doesn't feel anything or i should say she feels "something" but nothing good at all...she says its only pleasurable for her sometimes. I eat her out and take my time kissing and rubbing her body. My size isnt an issue (or at least thats what she says: maybe i'm not big enough to please her??). So what is the problem? She thinks maybe it was because she was a virgin and the first couple of times aren't suppose to feel good? (But we've done it more than a couple times, more like 15 times) Is that a possibility? I really just want to please her...

I seek a long-term relationship and I seem to find men who do not have the same energy level or same level of interest in sex as I do. It's really starting to get me down. I don't want to resort to being too forward, and I realize people may lie. It's just got me so down that I've begun to wonder why even try meeting someone if my needs will not be met. It's an awful feeling to consistently ask for intimacy and feel like the other person is not as interested. Aren't there couples out there who are fulfilled in their relationships? How does one get there? Do you ask pointed questions? Or, does it just happen sometimes?

Me - above average looks, above average height, curvy, physically fit - intense workouts, grown children, 43 years young

I have a large labia majora and during sex I have always had to stimulate myself in order to orgasm. My boyfriend asks why I can't orgasm without stimulating myself and truthfully I never have. I want to know if reaching an orgasm without stimulating myself is at all possible?

I think I've possibly had one or two orgasms in my life. Whether I try to do it myself, or I have a partner I just seem to get too sore before I reach orgasm. I'm not sure what I can do because I feel bad for my partners who actually want me to orgasm, and for myself since I know what I'm missing. Anyone know ways to avoid getting sore and sensitive too soon?

i have two problems first is when ever i pull my foreskin down i see these blue purplish veins i didnt have them before could it be caused by too much masterbation is it a sign of damage second question is does too much masterbation result in dry ejaculation please answer both questions

I was going to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time.We was both naked.My penis was soft and could not get hard.It finally did get hard but when i was going put it in her it got soft again.I love my girlfriend and find her very beautiful and sexy.

Lately, my boyfriend and I have struggled during sex. I admit responsibility to it being a lackluster engagement, but there are issues he claims as well. His dick is curved (much like a g-spot hitting vibrator), and that is great while initiating in missionary style or frontwards cow-girl positions. However, to spice up the sex, I need more than those two options. It feels boring not being able to change how we love each other. The shape of his member unfortunately makes it difficult to engage in other positions comfortably for both him and me.

Also, my boyfriend struggles to orgasm without the help of his own hand. I think this is due to years of masturbating and partners he had to fake with, but because of this, our sex can last forever. Great, right? However, I can sometimes orgasm more than 13 times by the time he even thinks of trying something to get him to orgasm, and by that time, my muscles and body are physically draining and overstimulated. I guess I'm just at a loss of how to change our sex life into being something more amazing. I'm still very young, and I am finding masturbating a more exciting prospect than making love to him.

And, also... I love doggie style type positions, and there is no way, besides anal that we can participate in this position. While I endorse and love anal sex, he prefers vaginal, putting that out of the question.

Please help!

Me and my girlfriend are new to sex. we have been going out for nearly 2 years now, and we have had sex 9 times mybe. sex feels great for me but (i just want it to feel good for her so bad) so we have to stop every time its just to uncomfortable for her. there has only one time that she could keep going with out stopping. but she said it was nothing, it still was uncomfortable but barable. i have tryed everything warming her up for a good 10 minutes(mybe i should even longer) we use lots of lube take it slow but still....but i can finger her with 2 fingers and it feels good.

What im thinking is that we have toi keep trying as with alot of things in life it gets better with time practice ...percestice, do we just have to keep trying are is there anything that she could do are me?

has anybody heard of it, I was thinking about restoring my foreskin?

does masturbation desensitize the penis, and if so how do you get the sensitivity back?

I’m with my wife for 11 years and when we met my staying power wasn’t great. I spent time working on it and have it down. Now she climaxes so quickly. How do i get her to slow down a bit and make it last longer? Not a common complaint im sure.

Hey all-

Followed Dan and Jen for a while and have utilized their tips in my personal life to great success.

Anyway, the short story is I've found a girl I have wonderful sexual chemistry with. We have great fun, but I don't know if I've reached the pinnacle of pleasure for her; female ejaculation.

We are very comfortable and she always tells me what she's feeling, and I know I've given her orgasms of all magnitudes including G-Spot and clitoral.

Though I've given her body shaking G-Spot orgasms (she tells me this, by the way....that she's basically paralyzed when we're through and I sometimes give her multiple orgasms), I can't seem to make her squirt.

Can anyone give me tips as to what I'm doing wrong? She's feeling it in the right area, but she's not squirting. Am I giving her the same sensation and she just doesn't have the ability to squirt? Is she cumming too quickly? The last time we came close she said she felt like she had to pee and then she came, but no liquid....all I'm getting is what seems to be a little extra lubrication (my hand was literally soaked, but not with what I've read to be the clear, ejaculate fluid.)

Basically, if anyone can give me insight as to what's going on, that would be great.

I am 66 years old but look and feel much younger. Most people guess me to be 10-15 years younger than I actually am. In that i am very blessed!
My problem is that when I have sex with a woman I rarely achieve orgasm. I enjoy all of the foreplay, the oral sex is awesome although women giving me oral, while it is enjoyable, never brings me to orgasm. I have no problem with orgasm when I masturbate. I do have to watch porn when I masturbate.
The women I have been with get a little upset when I don't orgasm after they have several times. Some act a little like it is an insult to them. I assure them it is OK with me because I really do enjoy bringing a woman to climax several times. I get very much pleasure in the act of making love to a women and I very much love the female body. But I DO want and would like to climax after she has been satisfied several times. Sometimes I do but it is like everything has to be just right and I have to get in a rhythm. If she starts moving it throws me off my rhythm and I fail. Weird I know.
Any suggestions?

My partner and I have been together for over a year. He likes porn, I have only seen one porn film I like. We had an agreement that we would find porn we both like and watch it together. I have since found out that he has gone back on this and has been watching porn and masturbating while I have been asleep.I do not think this would worry me sooo much if he had not gone back on his word. As he always likes to hold everyone else to their word.

During one of our many arguments he told me that while we are having sex he sometimes is thinking about what he has seen in porn films:(. This makes me feel ill and makes it really hard for me to enjoy the sex at all as all the time I wondering if he is actually thinking about me or some girl in a porn film.

He then says he would like to watch porn before we have sex and I am not sure about that as then I will be pretty sure it won't be me he is thinking about or focusing on during sex.

He thinks he can watch porn and it not affect our sex life but I am not so sure as I feel it already is. Half of me wants to walk away the other half wants to sort it out.

Does anyone have any ideas??

Thank you for reading this!!

Help!
My recent sex partner is a well endowed 11 inch man. His girth is about 3 inches or so. We had sex once, and it didn't hurt to much, but every time since then when we have tried to have sex, it just hurts more. He also lasts way too long for me! My other sex partner lasts about three to four hours, and that is fine, but this guy can go all evening and night long, like 6 or 7 hours. He doesn't understand that sex is nice, but that I also like to sleep!

Any advice for a 5 foot 1inch girl with a well endowed sex partner? Thank you!