I am a divorced bisexual male and I am looking for a couple to swing with and I find it very hard for a male to get into this lifestyle.

What (and where) is the best way to meet couples that are interested in another male joining them in and out of bed?

I lot of times in a swinger's party the male is scared and can not get a erection with his wife in the same room and looking on etc. What can the wife do to ease the situation so that the whole party can go into... heat... like is the whole purpose of the party !!! .....Is there something that she can do ?......:confused:

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My wife of 25 years, we're both in our early 40's, has recently begun to open up sexually, more than ever before. I've always had a healthy appetite for sex and she has always been great in bed but now she's really opening up. We are enjoying adult films now, from time to time, and they really get things hot for both of us. Sex is more intense now than ever.

In the heat of passion, she has also shared with me her hottest fantasy; and that is for her to watch another woman give me a blowjob. I'll be honest, the thought of that sends me through the roof! We talk about it during sex and it really fires things up for both of us. She says that she just wants to watch and then, when I'm done, it would be over.

However, she has learned that a good friend of hers has done the exact same thing. She and her husband picked a girl up at a bar and went back to the hotel with her. She gave the husband a blowjob and then the wife went down on the girl. My wife was telling me the story and we both got really worked up and have talked about it alot since then. I think now, if it were to happen, she would do more than watch.

We are going away for the weekend at the end of this month, without any kids, and we "joke" about picking up partner for the night. We would only ever do it if we were out of town and would never see the person again. We have agreed on that. But my question is, how would we ever begin to approach a woman at a bar about something like this? Or is there another way that anyone can tell us about to help us out? We are both on the edge about this and a drink or 2 would really help us lose our inhibitions and go for it. Any advice would really be appreciated.

I've been separated from my husband for over six months. We had been together for 15+ years. To put it bluntly I'm horny. I have a friend that I know would be willing to satisfy my urges but am hesitant to induldge but am not sure why. It's not the "if it doesn't work I'll lose a good friend" scenario that is stopping me. It's partially self esteem issues, partially that I am not physically attracted to him, partially that I haven't been with anyone else in over 15 years and wasn't overly experimental before that.

This man is very open and honest - I know that he would be willing to talk to me about anything and everything if I could just get my nerve up.

I'm not looking for a relationship, just some casual mind blowing sex - I think he's willing - how do I stop over thinking it?

if their not happy why not get a divorce

Little Background information first:
We have been together for almost 7years, on a couple of times I have hinted to a 3some, now she didn't say no, she did tell me her pref and also the ground rules, no kissing no penetration that kind of rules she made.
This was twice that she told me this.
Now how and where to go from here, i have been involved in a mmf 3some before, it was great not just for me but for my friends gf aswell, I must say to me it is more important that she experiance the ultimate pleasure.
She has a friend that did say she wants to goto a swing club, now we know them for a while very nice people, and would like to explore this avenue.
How do i go from here what would be the easiest way to get this avenue open for discussion without sounding like i want to cheat on my wife, trust me that is the last thing i want to do.

We trust each other completely and i do mean completely
any advice would be grateful

What an Exciting though it is to think what our society would be like if swinging ever got to major proportions of say 30%. I wonder what it would be like? I can only imagine !

My Boyfriend has asked for a threesome for his birthday and wants me to initiate on my own as part of the turn on for him. I have never been in a threesome or had a sexual experience with another woman, but very much want to do this. I don't have a clue how to approach another woman or how to know if she is interested in other women or a threesome. I don't want to go to a bar and pick up someone who does this every night with someone new. How do I approach a woman and how do I know who to approach?