is this a healthy fantasy???

[fawkse]

ok, i have had these thoughts as of late, and i am woundering exaclty how they came into my mind. also, if that they are healthy, or a sign of somethine more sinister.
i have been somewhat dreaming / thinking about actually raping my fiance with a strp on. i start off making him suck the thing while i belittle him with words. (you all can imagine those) then i make him take it while bending over. i 'll pull his hair. and slap him...
basically, i am very crude and degrading to him. it's like i want him to feel dirty, disgusting, and punished.
this isn't something i want to act out, but it is a thought that satisfies me when a lone.
what are your thoughts as to why i enjoy this? i am curious to know.
~fawkse~

[billy g.]

sounds like you enjoy being dominant...i don't think there's anything really "wrong" with it unless u actually were to, say, rape him or something.

[Wolfhowl]

Thereis nothing wrong with you fantasy.

Hell, there are even some guys out there who fantasize about being raped by a woman with a strap on. If you want to act it out, you would just have to talk with your partner before, durning and after, find out if he is willing to try.

[K. in Cleveland]

I'd say not only is there nothing wrong with your fantasy, but it could be fun to play out sometime. You might be surprised... he may actually be into it sometime. Does he let you do anal play with him at all? If not, you should try talking to him about it sometime... just sticking a finger in his bum while giving him a BJ... when his prostate gets stimulated he'll most likely have a very powerful orgasm. If your guy ends up liking that... who knows, maybe down the road you can try a strap on... and maybe he would show he has a submissive side.

[Dan And Jennifer]

Fawkse,

Here's what our good friend Paul has to say on the topic...

Are Sexual Fetishes Bad? How About Kinky Sexual Fantasies?

Sure you can spend years in therapy to discover the "root" of most fetishes and fantasies, but the question to ask yourself is... does it cause you problems, or is it something that you can enjoy with your partner?

[RLT]

I think it might be fun to have a woman dominate me and call me names and do all kinds of humiliating things to me. Although I'm not sure if I would want her to do me in the butt with a strapon, but I would probably be willing to at least give it a try. Who knows I might just like it lol.