I masturbate and i can only climax once befor it is to tender..any tips?

[marinekid]

when i masturbate and climax i can only do it once befor it feels like i'm not horny anymore and is to tender to continue...please say someone can help me...any tips?

[rob]

I need one more bit of information before I can help-are you male or female?

[marinekid]

I'm a male...can you please help?

[marinekid]

Originally Posted by rob

I need one more bit of information before I can help-are you male or female?

I'm a male. =] please help?

[rob]

In which case, don't worry. It's fairly normal for men to not be multi-orgasmic.
If you're worried about not keeping the feeling, then don't forget, the only reason for masturbating is because of the feeling. You can't attain this feeling whilst not 'in the mood' and you'll never be in the mood while you can't masturbate. (I hope that makes sense).
Wait five minutes or so-maximum-and it should be possible again. One thing I'm wondering is why you need to climax more than once in such a short time. Sure, it feels good, , but it isn't necessary that often.

[marinekid]

Originally Posted by rob

In which case, don't worry. It's fairly normal for men to not be multi-orgasmic.
If you're worried about not keeping the feeling, then don't forget, the only reason for masturbating is because of the feeling. You can't attain this feeling whilst not 'in the mood' and you'll never be in the mood while you can't masturbate. (I hope that makes sense).
Wait five minutes or so-maximum-and it should be possible again. One thing I'm wondering is why you need to climax more than once in such a short time. Sure, it feels good, , but it isn't necessary that often.

because it feels good and i dont want it to stop... it just feels like i lose my arousment as soon as i cum..it's weird

[rob]

Everyone feels like that. unless you're multi-orgasmic, that will always happen.
look up how to become multi orgasmic if you want to find out how. otherwise, get used to what you have.
side note: (don't answer if you don't want to) how long have you been masturbating for? the effects seem to lessen a bit, or at least you become used to them, fter a while.

[Beagle]

I agree with Rob. What you're describing is a perfectly normal pattern for a male. Almost all men have a refractory period after climax during which they lose their erection and can't climax again. It's perfectly natural and normal. I don't really know of any way to change that because it's ultimately based on hormonal changes that follow orgasm.

[marinekid]

one more question tho...what if i was having sexual intercourse with a woman?...would that make any significant difference?

[rob]

Don't think so.
It's the same physical stimulus, only from a different source.